I've been trying it over a VPN... still not working, and nothing in either PF nor IPS log.
tcpdump shows traffic flowing both ways.

I'm not sure this is an Astaro problem; it could be that the ILO doesn't have the gateway right or something.

FWIW, I've also previously found cabling problems where the NIC worked fine but the ILO didn't, when sharing the port. Changing the cable fixed the problem, but has not helped remote access.

Barry

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